*Minor differences ignored. Grouped by changes, with first version listed as example.
All his house died together - Not the whole of his family, nor even "all his sons" (see 2-Samuel 2:8-15; 2-Samuel 3:6-15; 2-Samuel 4:1-12). The phrase is perhaps an abbreviation of the expression in the parallel passage of Samuel 1-Samuel 31:6.
So Saul died - and all his house - Every branch of his family that had followed him to the war was cut off; his three sons are mentioned as being the chief. No doubt all his officers were slain.
Saul died, and his three sons, and all his house--his sons and courtiers who were there engaged in the battle. But it appears that Ish-bosheth and Mephibosheth were kept at Gibeah on account of their youth.
His house - All his children, then present with him, namely, his three sons, for Ishbosheth and Mephiboshieth were not slain.
*More commentary available at chapter level.